Let me clarify the title because I rarely see men or women fetishize over mixed boys they’re most likely all giddy over their mixed girls.
I used to sit and wonder if Black men were brainwashed during slavery to think non-Black women were more attractive than Black women, but I woke up. I have now come to the realization that Black men aren’t victims who need to be sheltered and coddled when it comes to their self-hate. They CHOOSE to hate their features and project their insecurities onto others. I have yet to meet groups of white men who hate other white women or Puerto Rican men who hate Puerto Rican women or Asian men or…you get the point.
Why is it only Black men who feel it’s okay to love every other kind of women but their own? To be genuinely in love is one thing but to constantly be hateful towards your own is foolish, pathetic, and sickening. The sick thing about it all is that they want mixed girls who look like the women they want to sleep with or find sexy. WTF!
I was moved to write this post after I came across this FB picture.
And here is where I list all the ignorances of the first tweet:
1. Spanish women are from Spain, a European country. I know you didn’t know that, so your welcome for the correction. When you’re demonstrating your internalized racism, please do so accurately. The word you were looking for was Latina (you know, the ones you think all look alike with light skin and dark, long curly hair and attitude you’re “willing” to put up with because at least she’s not Black ?….because Latinas can’t possibly be black ?????)
2. Note the fact that the tweeter, as do many ain’t sh*t people with internalized racism, favor not only Latinx-black mixed children, but do so ONLY when that mix is specifically a black MAN and a Latina WOMEN. You don’t see black women and Latinx men fetishized too much. I wonder why…
3. Fetishization of mixed children LITERALLY translates into: I want to have a daughter (Note: Daughter!!! Cuz who cares if your son come out Black — he gonna hook up with Latina anyway. “Problem solved!”) who will grow up into a woman I think is f*ckable.
4. Sooooo, ladies….Latinas specifically who cater to this fucked up sh*t because they enjoy the ego boost, consider this a fair warning of the fact that your baby daddy is a pedophile for his own daughter. And you ain’t nothing but the plug.
The obsession ignorant Black men have with mixed babies (mainly girls) is baffling. Do they know they can’t control genetics? They can’t pick and choose what features their child will have. Self-hating Black, what will you do when your baby girl looks JUST like you?
Ladies, be extremely careful when you decide to procreate with such men.